The holidays have a way of shining a spotlight on everything—our joy, our stress, our families, our loneliness, our magic, our mess. And for divorcees, the season can feel a little different than it used to. Not worse. Not better. Just… different.   The truth is, once you’ve walked through a significant transition like divorce, your holiday wish list changes, too. You stop wanting the stuff that looks good on paper and start craving the things that feel good in real life.   S