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Divorce/Post-Divorce: Why not me?

Have you ever felt like you're not enough? So, the person you are showing love doesn't share your feelings, or that he/she isn’t as invested in the relationship as you are? Well, I have good news for you: you are enough. Your love is true and pure. Let’s explore and settle this matter once and for all:

Do you feel like you aren't good enough?

Of course, you are enough. You are more than enough. You are perfect, and nothing can change that. You were born to do amazing things and make an impact on this world, no matter how small or large your goal may be and there is no time limit on your dreams! You are loved by so many people in ways you cannot even begin to understand or comprehend because they don't want anything from you other than your happiness and well-being (and maybe some cookies).

You deserve all the good things life has to offer because being alive itself is a gift from God/the Universe/whatever higher power exists out there beyond our understanding at any given moment in time. We have been given free will so we can choose how we wish our lives to turn out…so why not choose wisely?

Do you feel like the person you love doesn't share your feelings?

If you've found yourself in the position of loving someone who doesn't return that love, it can be hard to accept. You may feel like your feelings are not enough and wonder why they would reject such pure adoration. But here’s the thing: they need to remember that your love is true and pure, and it just wasn't meant for them.

Maybe they're not ready for a relationship at this point in their life or maybe there are other reasons why they don't see what an amazing person you are! But no matter what happens, know that there will always be someone out there who appreciates your affectionate nature as much as we do here. Honestly!

Did he/she leave you?

This is simple and I Implore you to take this in:

  • They leave you because they are not ready to be with you.

  • They leave you because they are not ready to be loved.

  • They leave you because they are not ready to love you, or anyone else for that matter.

You are enough. Your love is true and pure. You are enough.

Takeaways: Your love is true and pure, and you do not need to change for anyone else. You can find someone who loves you for who you are.

We all want to be loved and feel that our love is true and pure. It's important to remember that you are enough, even if it doesn't seem like it. Your feelings are valid and deserve respect from others. You deserve happiness in your life, please always keep that top of mind.

Love you,



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