There is a Pill for that!

Can’t sleep?

Hot flashes hijacking your meetings?

Mood swings that make you question your humanity?

Anxiety that convinces you everyone hates you, even though they’re just busy?

Ahem… ED? (Yes, gentlemen, we see you.)

We’re a generation caught between hormone patches, antidepressants, and little blue pills that promise to restore the magic in the bedroom. Menopause shows up like an uninvited guest who trashes the place, and anxiety has become the plus-one none of us remembers inviting. Meanwhile, some of the men we’re dating are popping performance pills with a prayer and a protein shake.

And honestly? No judgment. Science is great. Modern medicine is miraculous. Take the meds. Use the patch. Rock the Viagra if that’s your vibe. But can we discuss the other things? The real stuff?

Because no pill can fix feeling invisible, no patch makes up for a partner who never asks how your day was. No supplement fills the hole left by years of shrinking yourself to fit someone else’s comfort zone.

Men: We know ED isn’t just about sex—it’s about identity, intimacy, vulnerability. It’s okay to talk about it. We’d rather talk about it than pretend it’s not happening.

Women: Menopause isn’t a flaw to fix. It’s not the end of your desirability or your sanity. It’s a transition—not a termination. And anxiety? It’s not a weakness. It’s your body trying to keep up in a world that demands way too much.

• So, yes—there’s a pill for that. But there’s also:

• Talking to your doctor and your therapist

• Being honest with your partner instead of faking your way through it

• Not apologizing for needing support

• Unlearning shame around sex, aging, and mental health

  
  

Remembering that you’re still hot, hilarious, and worthy—sweat mustache and all. Healing isn’t just in the medicine cabinet. It’s in connection, communication, and calling out the double standards that say men get “refreshed” and women get “hormonal.”

So take the pill. Or don’t. But take back your story while you’re at it.

Because the real prescription? Compassion. Truth. And a whole lot of “I’m still figuring it out, but I’m showing up anyway.”

And there’s no co-pay for that.

Stay in the game, peeps!