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At Divorcee Dish Getaways, we believe that the end of one chapter is just the beginning of a brand-new adventure. Divorce isn’t just an ending—it’s an opportunity to rediscover yourself, embrace new experiences, and write the story of you. Whether you’re seeking adrenaline-fueled escapades, soulful reflection, or a well-deserved escape, we are here to celebrate this season of life with you. Born from the Divorce Dish community, we saw firsthand that divorce can feel isolating, but it doesn’t have to be. What if you could step away from the noise, the questions, and the expectations? What if you could embark on an adventure tailored to your dreams, reconnect with joy, and meet others who understand the journey? That’s the heart behind Divorcee Dish Getaways: giving you the space to be seen, celebrated, and free to explore life your way. Our getaways are designed with YOU in mind—whether sipping wine on a sun-drenched balcony, hiking a quiet mountain trail, or laughing until your cheeks hurt with newfound friends. With a curated mix of solo retreats, group adventures, and luxury escapes, there’s something for every divorcee ready to reclaim their joy, confidence, and zest for life. Because here’s the truth: you are not broken, you are not alone, and you deserve to celebrate yourself. At Divorcee Dish Getaways, we’re more than travel planners—your adventure partners, your biggest cheerleaders, and your reminder that the best is yet to come. It’s your time. Your adventure. Your fresh start. Let’s make it unforgettable.

It’s a funny in-between space to live in—being single but also open to meeting someone. Maybe you’ve healed, rediscovered yourself, and feel that flutter of excitement when you think about dating again. At the same time, you’re not rushing into the first opportunity that comes along because you know there’s real value in this season of life. Being single, even when you want to mingle, isn’t a contradiction. In fact, it can be a gift. Here’s why: 1. You Get to Prioritize You Singlehood allows you to set your own priorities without compromise. Whether it’s building your career, traveling on a whim, spending time with your kids or friends, or simply curling up with a book guilt-free, you get to choose. This independence strengthens your sense of self, which is exactly what makes you more grounded when you do  meet someone new. 2. Freedom to Explore Dating while single doesn’t have to be about finding “the one” right away. It can be about meeting different people, discovering what you want (and don’t want), and enjoying the ride. You can mingle with curiosity and fun rather than pressure—because your happiness doesn’t depend on someone else showing up. 3. Stronger Boundaries Being single teaches you how to say no to situations, people, or relationships that don’t align with your values. This time alone often sharpens your awareness of red flags and helps you stand firm on what matters most. By the time you decide to mingle more seriously, you’ll do so with clarity and confidence. 4. Deepened Connections with Yourself & Others Without a partner as your primary focus, you have more space for meaningful connections with family, friends, and community. Those bonds are often just as fulfilling as romantic ones, and they remind you that love exists in many forms—not just in couplehood. 5. Confidence in Your Independence When you know you can thrive on your own, dating becomes less about filling a void and more about adding joy. You’re not looking for someone to complete you—you’re looking for someone to complement an already full and vibrant life. That confidence radiates and often makes you even more attractive when mingling. Wanting to mingle doesn’t diminish the benefits of being single. It means you’re open—but also wise enough to enjoy the chapter you’re in. Singlehood is not a waiting room; it’s a season filled with freedom, self-discovery, and growth. So, embrace the best of both worlds: love your single life while keeping your heart open to the possibility of connection. After all, the strongest relationships often come when you already feel whole on your own. Find you and find your happiness. Erin

One of the most empowering shifts that happens after divorce is learning to own your curiosity. Asking questions, leaning in, and showing genuine interest in another person’s life isn’t a weakness—it’s a strength. It means you’ve grown enough to care, to notice, and to stay open even after being hurt. For too long, many of us were conditioned to believe that showing interest makes us look needy, clingy, or foolish. But the truth is, there’s nothing silly about wanting to connect. Curiosity is what builds bridges between people. It’s how relationships—whether romantic, platonic, or professional—take root. When you choose to be interested, even if the other person isn’t reciprocating, you’re demonstrating one of the most potent traits you have: confidence in your humanity. You’re not afraid to ask, to listen, to learn. That’s not “too much.” That’s precisely the kind of presence this world needs more of. Here’s the empowering part: their lack of interest doesn’t diminish your worth. Your curiosity doesn’t need validation. Whether someone meets your energy or not, your ability to engage fully, to care deeply, and to remain open-hearted is a reflection of your strength—not your shortcomings. So, the next time you hear that little voice whispering that you’re being “stupid” for asking questions or caring too much, silence it. You’re not stupid. You’re alive. You’re present. And you’re courageous enough to lean in where others would shut down. Because showing interest isn’t a flaw—it’s a superpower. Just be upfront and honest...you never know what is ahead!

Co-parenting is rarely a straight, smooth road. Add in the complexities of one or both parents moving on to new relationships, and the terrain can feel even bumpier. But here’s the good news: with the right mindset, clear communication, and a united focus on your children, it’s absolutely possible to remain an effective parenting team — no matter what changes life throws your way. Keep the Kids at the Center Your children are the heart of the team. That means every decision, conversation, and compromise should answer one question first: “What’s best for them?”  Not what’s easiest for you  or most comfortable for your new partner  — but what protects your kids’ stability, emotional health, and sense of security. When kids feel like they have two parents who have their backs, it doesn’t matter who’s dating whom. They feel loved, safe, and less likely to feel caught in the middle. Respect New Relationships — Without Letting Them Take Over New partners bring new personalities, parenting perspectives, and sometimes even new children into the mix. While they shouldn’t be excluded from conversations that affect household life, they also shouldn’t replace the primary parental decision-making team: you and your co-parent. Respect your co-parent’s right to move on, and extend that courtesy to your own life as well. But set boundaries that keep co-parenting decisions between the two of you. Keep Communication Business-Like When Emotions Run High When either of you is in a new relationship, old emotions or insecurities can surface — even if you thought you’d “moved on.”If tensions rise, treat co-parenting conversations like professional meetings. Stick to the facts, avoid rehashing the past, and choose your words as if your boss were cc’d on the thread. It sounds funny, but that little mental trick can keep exchanges from spiraling. Tools like co-parenting apps (OurFamilyWizard, TalkingParents) can help streamline communication and keep a paper trail if needed. Present a United Front to the Kids Disagreements will happen. But hashing them out in front of the kids undermines trust and makes them feel like they have to choose sides. Even if you have to fake it for a few hours, show unity in front of the children. Save debates for private calls, texts, or meetings — and when you reach an agreement, stick to it, even if it wasn’t your first choice. Practice Flexibility — Life Doesn’t Always Follow the Schedule New relationships sometimes mean new commitments, travel, or events. Whenever possible, trade time without turning it into a power struggle. Flexibility today earns you the same courtesy tomorrow — and shows the kids that everyone is willing to adapt for their benefit. Check Your Ego at the Door This might be the hardest part: accepting that your co-parent’s new partner may do things differently… and that’s okay. As long as your children are safe, cared for, and loved, it’s worth remembering that different isn’t necessarily wrong. Your role as a parent doesn’t shrink because someone else is helping. Co-parenting in blended family dynamics takes maturity, patience, and a whole lot of self-awareness. But when you approach it as a team sport , the scoreboard isn’t about who’s right or who “wins.” It’s about raising kids who feel supported and loved from every direction. The truth is, children notice when their parents — and even their parents’ new partners — treat each other with respect. They also notice when bitterness takes over. Choosing to co-parent as a team, even through life changes, isn’t just about keeping the peace; it’s about giving your kids the best version of their family possible. More sassy version coming next. Erin