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At Divorcee Dish Getaways, we believe that the end of one chapter is just the beginning of a brand-new adventure. Divorce isn’t just an ending—it’s an opportunity to rediscover yourself, embrace new experiences, and write the story of you. Whether you’re seeking adrenaline-fueled escapades, soulful reflection, or a well-deserved escape, we are here to celebrate this season of life with you. Born from the Divorce Dish community, we saw firsthand that divorce can feel isolating, but it doesn’t have to be. What if you could step away from the noise, the questions, and the expectations? What if you could embark on an adventure tailored to your dreams, reconnect with joy, and meet others who understand the journey? That’s the heart behind Divorcee Dish Getaways: giving you the space to be seen, celebrated, and free to explore life your way. Our getaways are designed with YOU in mind—whether sipping wine on a sun-drenched balcony, hiking a quiet mountain trail, or laughing until your cheeks hurt with newfound friends. With a curated mix of solo retreats, group adventures, and luxury escapes, there’s something for every divorcee ready to reclaim their joy, confidence, and zest for life. Because here’s the truth: you are not broken, you are not alone, and you deserve to celebrate yourself. At Divorcee Dish Getaways, we’re more than travel planners—your adventure partners, your biggest cheerleaders, and your reminder that the best is yet to come. It’s your time. Your adventure. Your fresh start. Let’s make it unforgettable.

Because Post-Divorce Dating Shouldn't Feel Like a Foreign Language - However, it Does! Dating today isn’t just different — it practically has its dictionary. If you’ve been out of the game for a while, swiping, ghosting, and "situationships" might sound like a foreign language. Don’t worry — Divorcee Dish  has you covered. Here’s your cheat sheet to the Top 12 Dating Terms you need to know before diving back into the dating pool: 1. Ghosting Someone you’re talking to or dating suddenly stops responding without any explanation. One minute, you’re texting about your favorite pizza toppings; the next, they vanish into thin air. Rude? Yes. Common? WAAAY too familiar, as adults, it's been an eye opener to know that people hold their phones in their hand for 12+ hours a day and can't give closure, shame on them. 2. Breadcrumbing Sending enough attention (texts, likes, DMs) to keep you interested — but never committing to anything real. It's like leaving a trail of crumbs without ever planning to share the loaf. 3. Benching Keeping someone on the sidelines while exploring other options. They’re not entirely out, but they’re not first-string either. Think: "You're great! Let’s hang out soon!"  — but they never set a date. 4. Love Bombing When someone comes on strong  at the beginning — nonstop compliments, big promises, over-the-top gestures — only to back off once they have your attention. 🚩 (Big red flag.) 5. Cushioning Flirting with people just in case  your current relationship doesn't work out is emotional bubble wrap—not cute, not healthy. 6. Catfishing When someone creates a fake identity online to trick you, filters are one thing. Fake names, fake photos, fake lives? With AI in the mix, you need to be careful and ALWAYS ask for a last name before things go too far. 7. Situationship More than friends, less than a relationship. You’re doing a couple of things without the label or commitment. Comfortable? Maybe. Confusing? Definitely. 8. Soft Launch Post a subtle hint of your new relationship on social media — maybe a hand, a blurry back view, or a plate from a dinner date —without revealing their identity. It's like relationship sneak peeking . 9. Hard Launch The full-on Instagram debut of your new relationship. Official. Tagging each other. Couple selfies. #Blessed 10. Orbiting After ghosting you, someone still watches all your Instagram stories, likes your posts, and casually lurks online. They're not talking to you, but they’re keeping tabs. Weird? Yes. 11. Zombie-ing When someone who ghosted you suddenly pops back up like nothing happened. "Hey stranger, how have you been?"  (Brain: RUN. ) 12. Red Flag/Green Flag ⚠️  Red flags  are warning signs of bad behavior (like controlling tendencies, constant canceling, or disrespect).✅  Green flags  are signs of healthy, respectful behavior (good communication, accountability, emotional maturity). These are only a few, some familiar and some not; I hope this helps you navigate the latest and greatest. Cheers, Erin

Ah, read receipts — those tiny digital tell-alls that feel like harmless transparency or emotional landmines, depending on who you ask. If you've ever been deep into texting someone new (or old) and they casually drop the line, "Can you turn on your read receipts?"  — you probably felt a little jolt in your chest, maybe even a red flag waving in the distance. And you're not wrong to pause. Because here's the thing: being asked to enable your read receipts is rarely about convenience — it's usually about control. When someone requests it, they ask for access to your replies and response patterns . Did you read it immediately but ignore it? Did you keep them waiting for hours? Did you prioritize other conversations over theirs? It's not just about communication; it becomes a silent scorecard for validation and anxiety. After Divorce, Boundaries Matter Even More If you've experienced a divorce, particularly one marked by control, emotional manipulation, or plain exhaustion, you understand the vital importance of healthy boundaries.  You fought to reclaim your peace. You fought to regain control of your energy. Why surrender small pieces of that power now? You don't owe anyone—whether a date, friend, or even family—an immediate play-by-play of how you manage your time or your emotional bandwidth. Turning on read receipts often feels like inviting someone to judge your silence. And silence, for many of us post-divorce warriors, is not avoidance — it's self-care . What It Means When They Ask Here’s what could be going on underneath the surface when someone asks you to flip that switch: They’re anxious  and want reassurance They’re insecure  and need constant validation They have control tendencies  and want to monitor your engagement They feel entitled  to your immediate attention None of those are your problems to solve. You can understand someone's anxiety without diminishing your comfort zone. You can be a great communicator without being a 24/7 on-call responder. A Graceful Way to Say "No" If you feel put on the spot, here's a simple, non-combative way to respond: "I actually don't use read receipts for anyone. I prefer to reply when I have the time and mental space to be fully present in the conversation." Short. Respectful. Final. And if someone keeps pushing after that? That's no longer a conversation about read receipts — it's about respect. Trust Yourself Post-divorce, you’re rebuilding a life that feels good to you , not rushed. Not guilt-tripped and not monitored. Trust that you don't need to over-explain, apologize, or second-guess your communication style. Protect your peace. Protect your phone settings. Protect your heart. ❤️ Let them feel that insecurity, not you. You can only control what you can control these days – keep your boundaries for your sanity. Has someone done this to you? Tell us more:

Bravery isn’t always straightforward or bold. It doesn’t always come with a cape (well, unless you choose to wear one). Sometimes, it shows up in the quietest moments—when you decide to keep going even though your heart feels heavy and your future uncertain. After divorce, being brave becomes a daily practice. It’s not just about surviving the split—it’s about stepping into who you’re meant to become, one day, one decision at a time. Letting Go Takes Guts Whether your divorce was amicable or earth-shattering, the end of a marriage marks a turning point that requires real courage. It signifies letting go of the life you envisioned, which isn’t easy for anyone. Men and women alike grieve. They second-guess. They fear what’s next. But the brave ones? They move forward anyway, even when their legs feel shaky or don’t have everything figured out. Rebuilding Isn’t Gendered Everyone deserves a second chance at peace, purpose, and perhaps even love. Divorce offers an opportunity to be honest with yourself: What do I want now? Who do I want to be? For some, it means diving into a new career. For others, it’s finally taking that trip, writing that book, or learning to fix the kitchen sink independently. Rebuilding your life is deeply personal, but courage  is the common thread  that keeps everything moving forward. Every day, Courage Counts Bravery after divorce or a breakup isn’t always dramatic. Sometimes, it’s making breakfast for your kids with a smile when you're exhausted. It’s walking into a party solo. It's saying "no more" to toxic patterns or simply learning how to sleep on your side  of the bed again. Those small acts? They matter. They add up. And they show you're stronger than you think. Love (Again or For the First Time) Bravery might mean opening your heart again, going on that awkward first date, letting yourself trust, flirting, and feeling butterflies. But for some, being brave means staying single, loving your own company, and choosing not to rush into something just because it’s expected. Both are powerful. Both are valid. Years Later—Still Brave Divorce doesn’t define you, but the choices you make after it can. Bravery isn’t a one-time thing—it’s a mindset. A decision you keep pushing. To heal. To grow. To protect your peace. To love again—yourself and maybe someone new. So, wherever you are in your journey, this is your reminder: You’re doing brave things very day. And we see you and we love you! xoxo Erin