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Image from Real Simple Returning to the dating scene can be challenging if you've been divorced for a while. You're afraid to try online dating because you don't trust strangers. You want someone with your best interests at heart and hope you’ll find a compatible partner. You also want someone who will be honest with you about what you need to do to find love again. That may require someone to provide professional support and guidance throughout the dating process. If this describes you, then matchmaking might be for you! Online dating can be challenging because you look at a photo and know some aspects of the person but not all. How can you trust a stranger you haven’t met? How do you screen a potential? This is overwhelming on dating sites like Match, eHarmony, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, or Plenty of Fish (POF). These sites use algorithms based on scientific research into the qualities that make relationships successful and happy so they can help people find compatible partners. On these sites, there are only profiles with photos or verified email addresses - which is only sometimes valid for other services like Craigslist - and users can only communicate through messaging to protect their privacy and give everyone an equal chance at finding love. However, when you want to find someone with your best interests at heart, these mainstream sites may not be for you. In walks a real-life matchmaker. It might be the time for a human matchmaker who you speak to and who provides you with insights on how the process works. They’ll help make a match and thoroughly screen your potential dates. You can trust these people to help you find a compatible partner. Matchmakers are trained to find people who are compatible with you because they know how to look for certain qualities in people and relationships. They'll ask who would best suit your lifestyle, personality, interests, and goals. Matchmakers also know how to identify red flags when it comes to dating: They can tell if someone is trying too hard or being dishonest while getting to know them better. You want a matchmaker who will be honest with you about what you need to do to find love again. You want someone who has your best interests at heart and will provide professional support and guidance throughout the dating process. Guess what? You're in luck: matchmakers are there for this exact reason! They have seen countless clients go through the same struggles as you, so they can help guide you through them in a way that feels natural and productive. The first thing to understand is that matchmakers are trained professionals. They know what makes a good match and how best to find it for their clients, which means they'll be able to help set realistic expectations regarding finding love again after divorce. The right matchmaker will also guide every step of your search, from creating profiles on dating websites or apps to meeting with potential partners face-to-face (and beyond). Matchmaking is also superb for people who feel they've tried everything else but still haven't found what they want. It's not just about finding a partner; it's about finding someone who makes sense for you as an individual, and that often means taking the time to figure out what exactly matters most when it comes to relationships (and whether those things may change over time). If you’re interested in these services, a good one to start with is Tawkify. Until next time, Erin Time to Dish: Have you used a Matchmaker? How did that work out for you? Did they find you a match? Overall, would you recommend finding a matchmaker? Listen and get support:

We all need downtime in our lives. It's when you step back and recharge your batteries before you return to work. It's also when we get to do things for ourselves or spend time alone with our thoughts or loved ones. Downtime is essential for our minds and bodies because it helps us regenerate after a long day of work or school. Still, sometimes it can be hard to enjoy downtime because we feel guilty about not doing anything productive or think we should do something else instead of relaxing. However, it's crucial to find a balance between socializing with friends and family while having time alone without feeling guilty about wasting an entire day doing nothing important. Downtime is an integral part of our lives. It's the time we take to rest and relax, to process information and feel refreshed, to be creative and solve problems, or to enjoy each other's company. Downtime helps us build stronger relationships with family members and friends. It also helps us stay mentally healthy by giving us an outlet for stress relief or simply taking time out from life's demands so we can recharge our batteries! It would be best to have downtime to recharge your mind and body. When you're constantly on the go, it's easy to feel like your life is out of control, and you have no time for yourself or the people around you. But taking time off can help improve your mental health by giving you a break from stressors in life and allowing space for reflection, self-care, creativity, and relationships--all essential components of well-being. When we take time off from work or school (or any other activity), our bodies need time away from the exertion they've been under during those activities. Physical rest allows us to restore our energy levels so that when we return full force into our daily lives again later in the week/month/year, etc., we can handle whatever comes at us without getting burned out too quickly! Sometimes, it's hard to enjoy downtime because we feel guilty or think we should be doing something else. It can be hard to enjoy downtime because we feel guilty or think we should do something else. The reality is that rest is necessary for our well-being. We need time away from work and other obligations to recharge our batteries and return to the groove when it's time to get back on track. Downtime doesn't have to mean sitting around doing nothing all day; there are plenty of ways to use your free time! Here are some ideas: Go for walks or hikes in nature (or even around town). This will help clear your head and give you a fresh perspective on whatever situation has been bothering you lately. Watch Netflix/ Hulu/ Amazon Prime (or whatever streaming service floats your boat). It'll give you something else productive - maybe even educational! - while also temporarily letting go of any stressors so they don't build up too much pressure inside before they burst out later when least expected... like during one's wedding day... It's essential to find a balance between socializing and being able to be alone. Being alone sometimes is okay, even if other people are around. You can still find ways to be social without being in a crowd: maybe you'll have coffee with someone or go on walks together. It doesn't have to always be about big groups of friends who all do things together simultaneously! Even if it is just one person, there are lots of ways people can hang out together without being part of some big group event or party--they could play board games together, watch movies at home instead of going out somewhere else (and talking about them afterward), volunteer somewhere together...anything that gives both parties something exciting or fun to do while also allowing them time away from other responsibilities. We all need downtime to recharge our minds and bodies. It's essential to find a balance between socializing and being able to be alone, though, so you don't burn out or feel isolated from others.

Silence is one of the worst actions someone you love or care for can take, and it's immature; it makes the person being silenced, confused and unwarranted. In this blog, we'll explore what makes this song and relationships so unique and how they may or may not evolve. The first time someone disappears from your life without a trace, it is a shock. You feel abandoned and wonder how things could have gone wrong between you. You feel like you are missing something in your life that was once there for a good reason--a friend, lover, or family member. And sometimes even the best friend one can have has disappeared without warning or explanation. The second time, you are angry. You feel betrayed and used by the person who told you they cared for you and wanted to be with you forever, now, or someday. You feel like you have been lied to about real feelings for no reason, which hurts more than anything else could hurt in this world. The third time, you feel fear. You're scared of the unknown. You're afraid of what's to come and how much worse it could be than what came before. You're so scared that this is where your story ends--in silence, without love or companionship or comfort or safety, all alone in an empty world with no one to talk to but yourself, forever and always until death finds its way into your heartless shell and takes away everything else that makes life worth living. Then comes the gut punch right before someone kicks you while you're down: it hurts so much because it's new; we've never experienced this kind of pain before, and our bodies aren't prepared for such agony (or maybe they are). The fourth time, you begin to understand the pattern. You notice that you are losing people and being cut off from others. You feel like you are going around in circles, getting nowhere. It is as if someone has trapped you in a cycle of silence. The fifth time, when the pattern is finally clear to you, and there seems no escape from it, when all doors are closed, and all roads lead back here...here is where you learn about yourself and where the answers can be found if you look in the right places. When someone purposely leaves your world, it is shocking; it makes you sick and makes you wonder, what could I have done that is so bad that you would cut me out like I never existed? However, you live and have the right to say your peace, whether these people genuinely hear you or they honestly couldn’t care less about you. If you are experiencing any loss or if someone close to you has disappeared without a trace, this blog will give you some insight into how they could have been affected by their experience. When this happens, sit with your thoughts on it. There have been times you just want to share and clear the air; there are times you want to just say f it – if you treat another human that way, karma is a bitch, and you will feel that somewhere down the road. I find this happens way too often to kind, caring people who think they have never real connections. It’s painful; you feel vulnerable; however, you should not. Be who you are, and be honest with yourself and the person who cuts you out. They are not worth any effort if there is silence. Sadly, you need to remove these toxic people from your world to find someone who cares about your existence – good, bad, or indifferent; silence is one of the worst actions you can take against someone you once admired or cared for. This time, we discuss relationships, friendships, and family relations. The best advice our team can give is do NOT let people shove you down and make you feel as if you have done something wrong. This is a current experience for me, and I will tell you losing people that you thought had your back and would be by you for life – sucks, but they are not worth your time if they can’t remember who you are. Stand up for you, and frankly fuck the people that hurt you like this…bye, bye, bye. Erin Time to Dish: · Have you tried to get attention? · Have you tried to repair an ending relationship or friendship? · Have you been rejected with excuses? · Have people blamed you for creating drama when you want peace? · What happened to this person that gives them the right to treat you this way? No one, I’m saying, deserves to be treated like they do not exist. Ensure you always remember that you are human; life is so short; release the toxicity and move forward.

Marriage is hard. It's supposed to be complicated. It's supposed to test your limits and push you past your comfort zone. But sometimes, life can get in the way. When it does, it can be difficult for couples to make time for one another, much less communicate about their problems effectively. And when financial concerns come into play (as they often do), an already strained relationship can fall apart wholly...or worse! You were an amazing couple. You were in love; you had dreams and a plan for your future together. Then life happened, and everything changed. Getting pregnant earlier than expected may derail your plans and cause financial stress from supporting your children and trying to keep up with the Joneses (or whoever else is living next door). You had a plan. You wanted to travel, and you wanted to have kids. You wanted to be a better person, too! And you thought that it would all happen in this order: Travel > Kids > Be A Better Person. Now, if you're struggling with these issues as a couple, it can lead to problems in marriage where one partner feels trapped by the other person's demands on them financially or emotionally. The stress of raising kids can put pressure on relationships, too. Hence, it's essential not only for partners but also for friends and family members who may become involved in helping financially or emotionally when things get tough. But now that you've been married for nine years and have two kids under five years old (and one on the way), reality has thrown a wrench into your plans--a twist called life itself. Life changes forever in a good way. When you have kids, life changes. It's not just the stress of raising them and supporting them financially that can lead to problems in marriage--it's also the fact that you will spend less time together as a couple. The good news is that there are ways to ensure this doesn't happen too much! You both need to agree on how much time you want to spend with each other and then stick with it (and try not to let other people convince either one of you otherwise). Then suddenly, years later, things change. Life has ups and downs, but your partner should be your biggest supporter. If you are having problems with the kids, talk about it! Only let things build up once they become too much to handle on their own without help from anyone else (including yourself). If there isn't anything going wrong in your relationship yet, don't worry about it either! Try taking time together as often as possible so that when something does happen later down the road--whether good or bad--you'll be able to deal with it better than if both of you hadn't spent time together lately. Though, if you do not make time for each other, married or not, things can go array and may be that way for years. That’s when separation and divorce step in because you may not know who you are anymore, and couples fall apart. If you are divorced or considering divorce, look at what you have. Is it better to be apart or together? That is a question for you as a couple. What I can tell you is – that you must make time for each other without work, kids, or other distractions because if not, sadly, your marriage may end in divorce. Stay Strong and Remember to Communicate! Peace, Erin Time to Dish: · How do you feel about marriage? · Or Your current partner? · Do you make time for each other? · Or do you find yourself spending too much time apart? · How can you overcome these obstacles?

You've probably heard the saying, "Lost people are hard to find." That's true, but it doesn't mean losing someone you love is impossible. It can happen for any number of reasons, but these are some of the most common ones: There are so many reasons why people lose people they love. The person you love may have changed, and you didn't recognize it until it was too late. You may have changed and only been aware of your transformation once it was too late to save the relationship. You may not be on the same page anymore, have different priorities or goals, or may even be having difficulty communicating with each other! The bottom line is that there's no way around this: if someone is important enough to us that we're grieving over them when they leave our lives? Then they should've been important enough for us to fight harder than we did when things started going south because if all else fails, we'll still have each other. One of the most obvious reasons is that we make some mistakes when we're younger, and then we grow up and realize it wasn't a good idea to do those things in the first place. One of the most obvious reasons is that we make some mistakes when we're younger, and then we grow up and realize it wasn't a good idea to do those things in the first place. It isn't easy to let go of your past when you feel like something was taken away. But sometimes, letting go of the past is necessary for your sanity and happiness. We could change our minds about the people in our lives, but sometimes that only happens in time. The reality is that we don't get to choose who stays in our lives. People leave us for a variety of reasons: they move away, they get married and have kids, their interests change, or they stop liking us. The good news is that you can change your mind about the people in your life--but sometimes that only happens in time. Sometimes, it may never happen (and I'm not just talking about love). Another reason is that people have different goals than you do. This can lead to a great divide between you and the person you love because you have yet to take the time to ask them about why they think so differently from you. Another reason is that people have different goals than you do. This can lead to a great divide between you and the person you love because you have yet to take the time to ask them about why they think so differently from you. You may feel like it's all about what YOU want, but you will have a conflict if your loved one has different ideas about what makes life worth living. If this happens often enough, one or both of your goals will become non-negotiable for both parties involved to achieve peace between them (and sometimes even then). A third reason is that we often get caught up in our own lives and neglect others who used to be essential to us. It's easy to stop reaching out because it's too much work, especially if everyone has changed so much since high school ended or college graduation day arrived. A third reason is that we often get caught up in our own lives and neglect others who used to be essential to us. It's easy to stop reaching out because it's too much work, especially if everyone has changed so much since high school ended or college graduation day arrived. People change over time; they have new priorities, friends, and interests that take precedence over keeping up with the acquaintances they made in the past. You may have also changed: perhaps you've started a family or moved away from where your childhood friend lives now that they got married. It's also possible that one of you isn't interested anymore--maybe this person has found someone else through online dating sites such as eHarmony or Match? Or there was never any chemistry between them from the start, but both parties were too polite/politically correct/polite (take your pick) to say something now... The last one is simple -- sometimes there's nothing left to say after everything that has been said already, even if none of it was lovely or kind! For your relationships to grow and thrive, you need to make sure that the two of you are talking about things the right way. It's easy to become accustomed to saying things that aren't very nice or kind -- especially if it's something we say often. We can get so wrapped up in our lives and forget about the people who were once crucial in ours! We hope this list has been helpful for you. We know that losing someone can be difficult, but we also believe in the power of friendship and love. We want everyone to feel connected with those around them so that their lives are filled with joy instead of sorrow! Peace Out, Erin Time to Dish: Have you lost someone you love? Have they just ghosted you? What happened? How did you deal with it? Did they come back into your life in a good way?

You've been through a lot, and it's time to celebrate. Celebrate your life Celebrate the good things in your life. Celebrate the good things you have done. Celebrate the good things you have learned. Celebrate the good things you have achieved, and know that there's more to come! Celebrate your strengths and accomplishments. Celebrate the things you have accomplished. Celebrate the things you are good at. Celebrate your strengths and accomplishments. Celebrate the things that make you happy and confident, like your ability to be a good friend or family member or even make it through another day. Celebrate all these things because they make up who we are as people--and they should be celebrated! Celebrate the good times you've had with your ex-spouse. When you're divorced, focusing on the bad times is easy. You may be angry at your ex-spouse or feel like you wasted years together. But if you're going through a divorce right now, there's no reason not to look back on what was good about your marriage and celebrate it! Remember all the good times: Think about all the great moments you spent together. Maybe it was when one of you first proposed; maybe it was when one of you got pregnant for the first time; perhaps it was simply when you decided to stay up late watching movies together every weekend after work. Learn from any mistakes: If there are things that happened during the course of this relationship that made things worse between us over time (and let's face it--there probably were), take some time now while everything is fresh in mind so that later down the line when things start getting better again after this problematic period passes by then maybe they won't happen again because we learned from our mistakes beforehand! Celebrate the people in your life who make it special Celebrate the people who helped you get through the divorce. Celebrate the people who have been there for you through thick and thin. Celebrate those who helped you when things were tough, and celebrate those who made your life better by being in it! Remember, even after divorcing, you need to celebrate If you and your ex-spouse have children, no matter how old they are or their relationship with their other parent, it's essential for them to have some holiday tradition that brings them together. This could mean celebrating Christmas or Hanukkah together as a family or attending each other's birthday parties. Even if there's no chance of reconciliation between the two of you as adults and parents, it's still important for kids (and adults) to have some connection with both sets of parents throughout their lives--even if it isn't always easy or pleasant! It takes effort and sacrifice on both sides, but these things can be done; many divorced couples do this every year without even thinking about it! We hope this post has given you some ideas for celebrating the good in your life. Remember, even after divorce, it's important to celebrate your life and the people who make it unique. Whether holidays are involved doesn't matter- you can always find something worth celebrating! Take time to celebrate and laugh! Time to Dish What can you celebrate today? What is most important to recognize? How can you celebrate the little things in life?

Divorce is an emotional time, and the financial aspect of divorce can be very complicated. If you're considering a divorce, it's essential to understand your income and expenses to plan for what happens next. Alimony is an agreement between two people where one person pays the other after divorce. In most cases, alimony is calculated by the judge based on many factors, including the standard of living during your marriage, length of the marriage, and other factors. An agreement with your partner or written contract can help you manage the financial aspects of alimony and child support payments after a divorce takes place because it outlines how much money each party will receive from one another regularly or as needed throughout their lives together as co-parents raising children together (or separately). Whether you have a partner or written agreement with someone else who has filed for divorce in their state (or the state where they live), it's important to understand how child support works to make decisions about whether or not you can afford this type of financial obligation after separating from one another legally through court proceedings with attorneys present who help negotiate agreements between partners who decide how assets will be divided up according Money and divorce can be a complicated matter. Money is a big part of divorce. You must understand the financial aspects of your divorce, including: What assets and debts are involved? How much does each item cost? Who is paying for what? In addition to knowing how much money you have, how much debt there is, and what bills need to be paid every month, it's also critical that both parties understand who will pay for what during the process. Knowing your income and expenses is important if you're getting divorced. This will help you figure out how much money you'll have after divorce, which can be used to pay alimony and child support. Alimony is calculated by the judge in your state based on many factors, including the standard of living during your marriage, the length of your marriage, and other factors. You may be entitled to alimony if you have been married for less than ten years; it's possible that you could get maintenance even if you have been married for more than ten years. Several factors will determine the amount and duration of alimony: Whether or not one spouse was employed during most or all of their marriage (e.g., "breadwinner") The needs of each spouse during divorce proceedings (e.g., one spouse has health problems) An agreement with your partner or a written contract can help you manage the financial aspects of alimony and child support payments: Alimony and child support payments can be challenging if you don't have a partner or written agreement with your ex. Without an arrangement, the judge will decide how much alimony and child support you pay based on their judgment of what is fair. If you do have an agreement with your ex-spouse, however, then it might be easier for both parties to agree on how much each must pay for them both to live comfortably after the divorce has taken place. If you're wondering how child support is calculated in your state or how it's paid, collected, and modified, this article is for you. It's also worth noting that child support can be terminated if one of the parents dies or if the child becomes emancipated (meaning they are no longer dependent on their parents). It's essential to know about divorce costs such as attorney fees, court costs, and more before deciding whether or not you can afford a divorce: The cost of divorce can vary greatly depending on the state and your circumstances. Attorney fees can range from $5,000 to $50,000, and court costs range between $1,000 and $20,000. Divorce takes time and effort, so you must consider all of these factors before deciding whether or not you can afford divorce. It would be best if you considered everything involved in divorce when making financial decisions: When you're going through a divorce, it's essential to consider all aspects of the process. Feeling your income, expenses, and partner's would be best. It would be best to consider what your children need regarding support during this time. You'll want to talk with an attorney about how much they will charge for his services (and how much money is available). Finally, you'll need to know how much court costs are expected for each case--and whether there will be any other fees involved with filing paperwork or appearing at court hearings or trials. Suppose you are going or thinking about divorce. Know your financial numbers and be prepared to discuss with everyone involved, i.e., partner and divorce lawyer. Good Luck!

Your marriage may end, but you must not close your eyes. There's so much to see out there! Just because you are divorced does not mean you have to stop living. Even though you are divorced, it does not mean your life has to stop. You can still live a happy life. You can still enjoy your time and have fun. Find a new way to enjoy life. You can still be friends with your ex-spouse. It's not easy and will take a while, but it is possible. It may take some time, but there are things you can do to help yourself get there. You'll need to put in the effort and always stay civil towards each other (unless there's an emergency or something). Find something to make you happy to help you cope with the divorce. Take up painting, join a club or class, go on a trip, or spend time with friends and family. Get a pet if it makes sense for your life right now (and remember, pets need love, too). Remember, you can find love again, maybe not immediately; however, be open to it. You must be available to possibilities and willing to put yourself out there. It's essential not only for your happiness but also for your children's well-being. When one parent is happy and fulfilled, it helps create a stable environment for them--one where they feel safe, secure, and loved by both parents (or caregivers). Take time for yourself and enjoy the time alone if this is what will make you feel better. You don't want to be alone forever, but this period is an integral part of your life, and it's okay if you need some time for yourself. You can use that time to do things that make you happy, like going out with friends or taking up hobbies like painting or photography. When doing these things, you will feel better about yourself; they will also help you cope with divorce! Let's face it: divorce is hard. You've lost your spouse, home, and often half of your assets. It's tempting to give up and crawl into bed for months with a tub of Ben & Jerry's while binge-watching Netflix shows. But life doesn't have to stop there! There are many ways to live happily after divorce, even if you're not ready or able to date again right away: In the end, we hope you can find comfort in knowing that there are many ways to live happily after divorce. No matter what stage of life you are in or what kind of relationship with your ex-spouse, there is always something good waiting for us if we look hard enough. Get out there, explore, and remember to always take time for yourself! Erin Time to Dish: · What are some projects you can do that will provide happiness? PS This is not a person (you do not need a person as a project) · What helped you most after you divorced? · What do you do daily to take care of yourself? Listen and get support:

A MESSAGE FROM OUR AUTHOR AND PUBLISHER: I founded the Divorcee Dish brand in 2022, inspired by my divorce and its effect on me, my children, my family, and my friends. Our humble beginnings as a blog resource for divorcees include insight and support for the people who need it most: those considering divorce, in the middle of a divorce, or settling into a single life after divorce. Those blogs have since been compiled into two paperback books, e-books, and audiobooks, which I have been incredibly proud to share. Our mission has always been to create a sense of community among divorcees so that we can lean on each other. We share our stories about what has worked for us (and what hasn’t), but we also want to hear your experiences. We hope that by reading or listening to Divorcee Dish, you'll feel less alone—and more prepared to make the best possible decisions for yourself and your family. We are here to provide support and insight to the people who need it most—and believe that no matter what stage of separation and divorce you're in, you deserve to be heard. Now, here’s what we’re not. We are not a dating or hookup site for those looking for a quick roll in the hay, those who revel in perverse email and text exchanges, and crass, crude language flowing back and forth on our blog, website, and social media channels. Divorcee Dish is written by and for adults who genuinely want to make a better life on their own or with someone decent and respectable. Suppose you do not fit into that category. We do not accept unwarranted messages, inappropriate sexual content, and advances. You will be immediately banned from this community. Please play by the rules and share your stories. Thank you, Erin Dullaghan Jones

I know we live in an age of social media and whatnot, and the world is wild; everyone is busy and feels like they are moving in one million directions. People often do not slow down enough to practice common courtesies, especially regarding communication. Talking on your phone when someone else is trying to converse with you. Not saying thank you when someone does something nice for you (like holding the door open). Not looking people in the eyes because your head is down on your phone. Multitasking/distractions during a meeting or date. Texting has obliterated the art of conversation. Text messages have replaced phone calls, in-person meetings, and dating. Now you can send a text message to your crush as quickly as you'd order takeout food through an app on your smartphone or tablet. While this is convenient for many people, it also comes with consequences: texting lacks etiquette or respect for others' time and feelings--and it's easy to forget that there are real people on the other side of those screens! Ironically, phone calls are considered more personal than text messaging, but they are not. Texting is a tool for communication, not a replacement for human interaction. Phone calls can be made or received at any time of day without much effort on your part (and most phones have a built-in answering machine). Texts arrive only when you want them to--you don't have to worry about waking up someone who needs rest because they're sick or tired from work. Phone calls also allow us to connect in ways we wouldn't otherwise be able to through written words alone: inflections in our voices convey emotion; facial expressions can say more than any sentence ever could; body language helps communicate meaning without having to say anything at all! Texting is impersonal and requires no effort from the sender to express their feelings or attention to detail. It is easy for someone to text you without thinking about what they say or how it will make you feel. Texting requires no thoughtfulness or consideration because it's all done via text message, which removes all human interaction from the equation. You know, the person who texts you instead of calling you. The one who wants to avoid meeting in person would rather text than meet face-to-face. They're probably not even dating anyone right now--and if they do, it's only because their partner can't stand them either. It's a shame that so many people have come to rely on texting as their primary means of communication with others; it's like they don't want anything beyond words on a screen--no voice inflection or facial expression, or body language! It makes sense, though: If someone's never heard your voice before (or seen your face), they won't realize how annoying it is when you talk too fast or breathe loudly through your nose while chewing food loudly... Texting is impersonal. You can't see the person you're texting with, so it's impossible to know their mood or tone when they reply. When we talk face-to-face with someone, we can tell if they are happy or sad based on their facial expressions and body language; but when you're texting someone you don't know well enough to read those signals yet (or at all), it's hard not to feel like all your messages are being read by robots! Texting also lacks depth: there's no way for two people who don't know each other very well yet--and especially if those two people aren't talking face-to-face--to get into anything meaningful over text message because there's no way for either party involved in this "conversation" (if one could even call it that). Texting is NOT a substitute for talking with people face-to-face. If something essential needs saying, pick up the phone and call them instead of sending them an impersonal text message (or email). You'll avoid misunderstanding and miscommunication altogether. Texting is an excellent tool for communication, but there are others. If you use your phone as an excuse not to talk face-to-face with people, you're missing out on all kinds of opportunities for human connection. Texting also lacks civility, etiquette, and manners, meaning it's time for us all to take a step back from our phones to reconnect in person! Let's start a movement - call a friend or loved one today or someone you have been texting about a date! Your voice is your art of communication. xoxo Erin

Managing work and kids after a divorce can be one of the most challenging aspects of your post-split life. You've left a relationship but aren't always sure how to handle being alone. And now you must deal with the fact that your kids are sad about their parent's separation—and may even be acting out because of it! Here are some tips for making things easier for both you and your children during this challenging time: Create a schedule that works for everyone: Once your schedule is in place, it's essential to stick with it. Your children will benefit from having a daily routine and knowing what to expect. But if something happens or one child needs more attention than usual, don't be afraid to change things around. Certain days work better for everyone than others--say there are extracurricular activities on Fridays and Saturdays that take up most of your time (and maybe even into the evenings). Or Saturdays are better because they offer more opportunities for playdates or other social activities than other weekdays. That's okay! It's all about finding what works best for everyone involved and ensuring everyone has enough time together without feeling overwhelmed by their responsibilities at home and outside of school/work/etcetera. Don't be afraid to ask for help: Feel free to ask for help. You may feel like you need to do everything independently, but that's only sometimes realistic. If you have friends or family willing and able to help with babysitting, household chores, and other tasks, take them up on their offers. Your kids will benefit from having extra attention from other adults in their lives. You can also ask your ex-spouse if they would be willing to watch the kids occasionally so that you can go out with friends or get some much-needed adult time on your own-- make sure it's something both parents agree upon first! Be flexible. Flexibility is critical when it comes to managing work and kids after divorce. Feel free to change the schedule, ask for help, and call in sick when needed. Being flexible will make your life easier in the long run and help keep things running smoothly at home with your kids. Introduce your kids to their new routines. Introduce your kids to their new routines. Explain to them that you are doing your best and ask for their help. Be patient and calm; this can be challenging for everyone involved. You can do this. You are a great parent with the strength to endure this time. You can be the best parent for your kids, even if they aren't living with you full-time. There are many ways to balance work and kids after divorce. The most important thing is to remember that you can do it! Remember to create a schedule that works for everyone, and don't be afraid to ask for help when needed. It's also important to keep things flexible so everyone feels comfortable in their new routine. Introducing your kids to new ways can be challenging but will pay off in the long run as they adjust more easily over time. Please Remember to take care of yourself! xoxo Erin

Dating apps have taken over the dating landscape in a big way. They offer convenience and ease and are a great way to meet new people. If you've never used dating applications before, it can be hard to know what to do or how to start. That's why we've put together this handy guide for those of you who are just getting started with dating apps! How to Navigate: You can swipe right on someone if you like them or swipe left if you don't. If they do the same, it's a match, and you can start chatting! If someone doesn't want to match with you, don't take it personally; they just may not be interested in dating at this time or place. Try again another time when/where it works better for both parties involved. What to do if someone doesn't want to match with me? Don't worry about it--they might not be into who YOU are yet! Give yourself some time and try again later when/where things might go better than before (and vice versa). That said: if someone continues rejecting multiple attempts at making contact over several days' worth of interactions, then perhaps this isn't going anywhere. What dating application do you choose? Are you looking for someone who is in your age range? Are you looking for someone with similar interests and hobbies? Do you want to be able to meet people who live near you, or would you instead meet someone from across the country or the world? These are all important questions when considering what dating application suits you. How many dating applications are out there? There are a lot of dating apps out there. Some are free, and some are paid, but they all have one thing in common: they're meant to help you find your soulmate. The best part? There's something for everyone! If you're looking for a serious relationship and have your eye on another person with the same goal, check out Match or eHarmony. If casual hookups are more your speed, Grindr might be right up your alley (or down your pants). And if neither of these options sounds like what you're looking for--maybe because you have yet to learn yourself or someone else told them what kind of partner would suit them--then OkCupid is probably where it's at! The first thing you will want to do is think about why you are using a dating app. Are you looking for love? Or just some sex? Maybe both! If you want to find someone who shares your interests and values, then an app like Tinder may be better for you than one like OKCupid or Match.com. If the latter is more your speed, then there are still ways for those who have no interest in meeting their soulmate through technology: many bars now have Tinder nights where singles can go out together and swipe right (or left) on each other over drinks instead of just staring at their phones all night long until they get tired enough that they go home alone--and then cry themselves to sleep over it because no one ever wants them anyway because everyone else has moved on from being single too so why won't anyone ever love me again?! Tips for the best chances of matching: Choose a dating app that is right for you. Make sure the app is free and easy to use. Make sure the app is secure, primarily if you use it to meet strangers or plan your first date. Choose an app with a large user base so that plenty of people might be interested in meeting someone like you! You need to make sure you're using a dating app that will be helpful to you. The first thing you need to do is make sure you're using a dating app that will be helpful to you. Don't just use one; try a few. You can use more than one at once, but make sure they're all geared toward what you're looking for in terms of location and age range. If your goal is finding someone in your area or nearby cities, go with something like Tinder or Bumble (better if you want women). If your dream date is someone who lives across the country and has no interest in traveling there anytime soon, consider using Grindr or Scruff (the former being better if it's men). We hope this article has helped you to make an informed decision about which dating app is best for you. There are so many options out there, but with some careful thought and research, we're sure you'll find one that works well for your needs. Here is a complete list from Tom's Guide. Dating is not simple these days at any age, especially with technology; however, you can also use dating apps for pure entertainment :) Remember, you can have our new Audiobook for FREE. just email us at divorceedish@gmail.com xoxo Erin