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Gracefully Divorced: Navigating the Holidays with Ease

Gracefully Divorced

Being divorced and coinciding with the holiday season can amplify the emotional stress and uncertainty. However, it's possible to navigate this difficult period gracefully and focus on creating positive memories for yourself and your loved ones. Here are some practical tips and insights on handling divorce gracefully during the holidays.

Acknowledge your feelings:

Allow yourself to feel the emotions that come with divorce during the holidays. It is normal to experience sadness, grief, anger, or even relief. Give yourself permission to process these emotions and seek support from trusted friends, family, or a therapist if needed. Remember, healing is a journey, and taking the time to heal is okay.

Set realistic expectations:

Accept that your holiday season may differ this year and adjust your expectations accordingly. Understand that traditions may change, and that's okay. Focus on creating new traditions that suit your current circumstances. Embrace the opportunity to redefine the holidays and make them more meaningful.

Communicate with your ex-spouse:

Effective communication can go a long way in ensuring a smooth transition during the holidays. Discuss and agree upon holiday plans, including visitation schedules and any traditions you wish to maintain. Be flexible and willing to compromise for your children's happiness. Keeping the lines of communication open can also help prevent misunderstandings and reduce stress.

Prioritize self-care:

Divorce is emotionally taxing, and it is essential to prioritize self-care during the holiday season. Take time for yourself, whether it's through exercise, meditation, journaling, or engaging in activities you enjoy. Engaging in self-care will help you maintain emotional balance and reduce stress, allowing you to navigate the holidays with greater grace.

Create new traditions & master new memories:

Instead of dwelling on what once was, embrace the opportunity to create new traditions that align with your current circumstances. Involve your children in brainstorming new ideas, making them feel empowered to contribute. These new traditions can be tailored to your unique situation, bringing joy and celebration into your life during the holiday season.

Maintain a positive mindset:

While divorce may have disrupted your life, it's crucial to maintain a positive mindset during the holidays. Focus on gratitude for what you still have and the opportunity for growth. Practice mindfulness and stay present in the moment, savoring the joyous experiences you can create.

You can easily navigate this difficult period by acknowledging your feelings, setting realistic expectations, communicating effectively, prioritizing self-care, creating new traditions, and maintaining a good balance for your kiddos.

Happy Holidays, Divorcee’s,


Time to Dish:

  • Is this your first divorced holiday? Have you communicated about how you will handle each of the holidays?

  • If you are a veteran, what advice would you give someone newly divorced?

  • What is your schedule? Do you stick to it?

  • What would happen if plans didn’t go well?

  • How did you handle it?

  • What can you do to make the holidays most enjoyable for all?


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