Best Divorce Communication Apps to Help You Co-Parent

Divorce is complicated...period...even when amicable at first, it can change over time. Let's face it—you got divorced for a reason. Relationships play into the image, and let's face it - you got divorced for a reason.

As all of you know, emotions run high, boundaries get tested, and communication? It can feel impossible. But when kids are involved, communication isn’t optional—it’s essential.

Whether navigating tense co-parenting conversations or simply trying to keep track of pickups and payments, having the right tools can make all the difference. Fortunately, there’s an app for that—actually, there are several. Here are the best divorce communication apps to minimize conflict and maximize clarity.

1. OurFamilyWizard

Best for: Comprehensive co-parenting communication

OurFamilyWizard is the gold standard for co-parenting apps. Judges across the U.S. even recommend it. It features:

• Message boards with a ToneMeter™ (like autocorrect for your attitude)

• Shared calendar for custody schedules and activities

• Expense tracking and reimbursement requests

• A secure info bank for medical records, contacts, and more

Pros: Court-admissible records, easy-to-use interface.

Cons: Subscription required (starts around $99/year per parent)

2. TalkingParents

Best for: Legally documented communication

TalkingParents is ideal if you need a fully documented, tamper-proof communication record. It includes:

• Secure messaging

• Shared calendar

• Call and video recording (in premium version)

• Payment tracking

Pros: Legally sound communication log

Cons: Free version is limited; paid features require upgrade

3. AppClose

Best for: Free scheduling and expense sharing

AppClose is a solid free option for co-parents and even extended family members. It offers:

• Messaging and call logs

• Custody and event calendar

• Expense tracking and payment requests via connected bank accounts

Pros: 100% free, even the premium features

Cons: Some features (like exporting records) may be clunky

4. Cozi

Best for: Families who want to co-parent without conflict-focused tools

Cozi wasn’t built just for divorced families, but it's a great fit. This shared calendar app includes:

• Shared calendars and reminders

• Shopping lists and meal planners

• Journal for sharing moments with the kids

Pros: Family-focused, easy for kids and step-parents to join in

Cons: No built-in messaging or legal documentation

5. 2houses

Best for: International or long-distance co-parents

2houses is a user-friendly platform that helps coordinate everything from scheduling to finances. It includes:

• Shared calendar and journal

• Expense tracking

• Info bank and custody management

Pros: Great for long-distance or international co-parents: 

Cons: Subscription required after trial period

You don’t have to rely on emotional texts, misread emails, or endless "he said, she said" battles. These apps are built to take the guesswork—and often, the drama—out of post-divorce parenting.

Choose the one that best fits your dynamic. Even if your relationship doesn’t work out, your communication can. I just found out about 2 of these and had been using others that didn't cover the entire needs of our family.

Also, Communication isn’t just about logistics—it’s about respect, stability, and showing your kids that love can still lead the way. This isn't easy, however, it's a must.

Sending positive vibes!

Erin