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Coping as a single in a tough new year

difficult year

In the face of a challenging year like 2023, being single also presented unique obstacles. It made me realize how much I relied on the social connections and support system that typically come with being in a committed relationship. Without a partner to lean on, I had to find alternative ways to navigate the difficulties that came my way.

One of the biggest challenges was the feeling of loneliness and isolation. However, being single also provided an opportunity for self-reflection and growth. I had more time to focus on myself and my personal development. I committed to writing more books, investing in as much self-care as possible, and exploring my interests. This period of solitude has allowed me to dig deep within myself and discover unique aspects of my identity.

While the challenges of 2023 were plentiful, I learned valuable lessons during this trying period. I learned to cherish my own company and find happiness within myself. I realized that being single doesn't define my worth or happiness. It's about learning to be comfortable in my skin and embracing the freedom and independence of being single.

Moreover, I recognized the importance of reaching out and building connections with others, even if romantic relationships were not on the horizon. I sought support from friends and family. These connections did not alleviate loneliness. It’s still there, and It's so hard some days.

Looking back, 2023 taught me resilience, self-discovery, and the importance of finding joy and contentment in the present moment.

While it was undoubtedly a challenging year losing a cousin and a dear friend and realizing life is so short., I am working on emerging and continuing my self-discovery journey. I am not where I thought I would be, and it's hard, yet it's life, and you must take it day by day.


For anyone else experiencing a complex and challenging year as a single person, know that you are not alone. Take it one day at a time, be patient with yourself, and remember there is strength in solitude.

Embrace the opportunities for personal growth, lean on your support system, and never forget that your worth does not depend on your relationship status.


I am wishing all brighter days ahead. Remember, life is fragile, and you must cherish every day.

Merry Christmas to all.






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