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Dating After Divorce: 6 Simple Steps to Get Back in the Game


We get a lot of questions about dating after divorce, like How do I do this? I have not dated in over 20+ years or more.  We are here to tell you that you can do this, and here are a few tips to navigate dating after divorce.

1.   Take Time to Heal: Before diving into the dating scene, it's crucial to allow yourself time to heal from the emotional toll of your divorce. Take this period to rediscover yourself, explore your interests, and focus on self-care. Healing will give you a solid foundation to build healthy new relationships.


2.   Reflect on Past Relationships: Use this time to reflect on your past marriage and identify any patterns or behaviors contributing to its downfall. Understanding your role in the relationship's demise will help you enter future relationships with a refreshed perspective and enable you to make better choices.


3.   Define Your Priorities and Ideal Partner: Now is the perfect time to evaluate your priorities and goals for the future. What are your deal-breakers? What qualities are you looking for in a partner? By being clear about your needs and wants, you can establish healthier boundaries and reduce the likelihood of entering a dysfunctional relationship.

4.   Connect with Yourself: Rediscovering who you are and what brings you joy is essential before returning to the dating scene. Pursue hobbies, meet new people, and take the time to date yourself. By fostering a healthy relationship with yourself first, you'll be better equipped to form fulfilling connections with others.

5.   Slow your roll: Dating can feel overwhelming, but taking time is essential. Take things slowly, enjoy the process, and don't put undue pressure on yourself to find someone immediately. Building a solid foundation for a new relationship takes time. Trust your instincts and let relationships develop at a comfortable pace.

6.   Maintain Realistic Expectations: Realize that dating after divorce might differ from what you remember. People change, and so does the dating landscape. It's essential to manage your expectations, be patient, and understand that finding a compatible partner may take time. Avoid comparing new relationships to your past ones, as this can hinder your ability to connect with someone new truly.

Dating after a divorce can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. You WILL make mistakes, and you will learn. You may date a lot of frogs to find your prince () – that is ok.

 You can find happiness by– allowing yourself time to heal, reflecting on past relationships, defining your priorities, connecting with yourself, taking it slow, and maintaining realistic expectations. Remember to stay true to yourself, have fun, and believe in the possibility of a fresh start.


Have fun, and do not overthink it!


Time To Dish:

·      Have you entered the dating world yet?

·      If not, is it because you are scared or you are unsure?

·      How do you feel about joining the new world of dating?

·      Remember you are dating for different reasons later in life – be true to yourself – how will you do this?



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