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Kids and divorce.


Divorce can significantly impact the mental health of the children involved. Studies show that kids whose parents are in the throes of divorce have higher rates of depression and anxiety than their peers in intact families. Additionally, these kids may struggle with guilt, shame, and confusion about the reasons behind their parent's separation. Thus, parents need to provide significant emotional support and open communication during this difficult time to help their children cope with the changes in their family structure.

If you are a parent going through a divorce, there are several things you can do to help your kids cope and notably include:

- Ensure that they receive support from both parents.

- Encourage open communication and validate their feelings throughout the process.

- Be honest with them about what's happening but avoid sharing too many details.


Here's a biggie: Balancing honesty and age-appropriate information is essential. Experts recommend that parents explain why a divorce is happening without blaming or demonizing the other parent is necessary. Children must know they are not at fault and that both parents still love them. Parents should also reassure their children that even though their family is changing, they will still be cared for, and everything will be OK.


Next: Prioritizing open communication and emotional support for children is crucial during and after a divorce. Parents can involve their children in appropriate decision-making, such as choosing custody schedules and living arrangements. Ensuring that both parents play an active role in their children's lives is essential, as maintaining a sense of routine and stability can ease the transition.


Additionally, I urge you to seek support from a therapist or counselor who can provide parents and children with the tools they need to manage the emotional challenges of all stages of a divorce.


I hope this helps you navigate how you can support your children during this challenging period in all your lives.


Best of luck with everything,

Erin

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