Single Always? Don’t Worry—Manifest Your Next Love
- Erin Jones
- Aug 11
- 2 min read
If you’ve been single long enough to start referring to yourself as “forever solo,” you’ve probably heard all the greatest hits:
• “Why are you still single?”
• “Have you tried dating apps?”
• “Don’t you want someone?”
Meanwhile, you’re over here nodding politely while silently screaming, then wondering, "Do you not know me?" Ha!

Here’s the thing—being single isn’t so bad -you are embracing the inner you. It’s a season. And like every season, it can (and will) change in its own time. But here’s the magic trick: you don’t have to sit around and wait. You can manifest your next great love story.
Step 1: Get Clear on What You Want
Not the list your friends think you should have—the one that matters to you. Do you want someone adventurous? Someone who sends good morning texts? Someone who loves dogs more than life itself? Please write it down. Be specific. The universe loves clarity.
Step 2: Become the Energy You Want to Attract
If you want kindness, be kind. If you want confidence, stand tall. If you want someone who loves to travel, start planning those trips—yes, even solo ones. You’re not just manifesting them—you’re also leveling up yourself.
Step 3: Release the Desperation
Manifestation isn’t begging the universe for a plus-one—it’s trusting that the right person is already making their way toward you. Live your life. Fill your days with joy, friends, hobbies, and laughter. Love tends to show up when you’re too busy enjoying yourself to notice.
Step 4: Make Room for Love
Want love? Make space for it. That might mean finally letting go of an ex you still “accidentally” check on Instagram, or deleting that “just in case” situationship’s number. Emotional clutter takes up prime real estate in your heart.
Step 5: Stay Open to the Unexpected
Your next love might not look like you imagined. They might pop up at a coffee shop, through a mutual friend, or yes—even in your DMs. Don’t slam the door just because the packaging surprises you.
Being “always single” isn’t a flaw, you know what you want, and you will get there. Use it to get crystal clear, grow into the person you love being, and build a life that feels good now. That way, when your next love walks in, they’re not “completing” you—they’re complementing an already amazing life. Because love isn’t something you chase, it’s something you welcome. And yours? Oh, it’s already on its way. They are manifesting you as well.