You Could Have Had Me, However You Don't Deserve Me

The Awakening of Self-Worth

Looking back, I see a time when I tried hard to hold onto a love that promised endless possibilities but delivered disappointment instead. I was ready to give my time, energy, and heart. Yet, despite that, there came a moment when the truth became undeniable: you could have had me, but you didn’t understand the depth of what you were being offered. That realization wasn’t bitter; it was liberating. It was the beginning of understanding that self-worth isn’t something to bargain with. Instead, it’s a treasure that should never be compromised.

Learning the Hard Lessons

Heartbreak is often painted in shades of pain, but it also serves as a profound teacher. Every tear, every sleepless night, and every pang of regret carries with it a lesson on what we truly deserve. I learned love isn’t about holding on to someone who fails to honor you. Instead, it’s about knowing when to let go so you can find someone who cherishes you precisely as you are. When someone disses your value or takes you for granted, you must stand firm in the truth: you deserve a love that uplifts you, not diminishes your spirit.

Embracing the Future With Confidence

Moving forward isn’t about erasing the past; it’s about integrating its lessons into a more substantial, wiser version of yourself. Each setback taught me the importance of setting boundaries and protecting my heart. It’s a reminder that not everyone who crosses our path is meant to be a part of our journey. Today, I stand confident, knowing that if someone fails to appreciate all I offer, it’s not a reflection of my inadequacy—it’s a testament to their inability to recognize actual value. I am complete on my own, and any love that comes my way in the future will be built on mutual respect and genuine care.

A Call to All Who’ve Been Wronged

To anyone who has ever felt undervalued or taken for granted, remember that your heart is a precious gem. Love should never require you to dim your light or compromise your essence. If someone tells you—or if you ever feel—that you could have had them, but they don’t deserve you, let that be the spark that ignites a journey toward self-love and acceptance. Stand tall, celebrate your worth, and never settle for less than you deserve.

The right person will recognize and honor your brilliance, cherishing every part of who you are.

In the end, the beauty of life lies in its lessons. Embracing our experiences, both joyful and painful, allows us to grow into stronger, more resilient beings. You could have had me

however, you don't deserve me—a truth not of defeat but of empowerment. Let that truth guide you as you step confidently into the future with the knowledge that you are irreplaceable.

Sadly, when you do not appreciate the gifts you have, they go away. So as Jo Koy says "Bye, Bye"

Do not settle my peeps!