Mom, What Do You Want for Mother’s Day?” A Guide for Single Moms (and the Kids Who Love Them.

If you’re a single mom, you’ve likely been asked this sweet but slightly overwhelming question:

“What do you want for Mother’s Day?”

Cue the pause. The inner monologue says, “Where do I start? Sleep? Peace? A clone?” But instead, you probably smile and say, “Oh, don’t worry about it!”

But let’s change that. You deserve to be celebrated—not just with flowers or cards, but with thought, intention, and love. Whether co-parenting or doing this thing solo, Mother’s Day can be a beautiful opportunity for connection, gratitude, and a little pampering.

So, if your kids ask you what you want this year, here are some heartfelt, simple ideas to share—things that will fill your cup:

Time Together That Feels Special: A walk in the park, a picnic in the backyard, movie night in PJs—whatever feels fun and low-pressure. It’s not about a big plan but quality moments where you’re all present, laughing, and just being together.

Something Made from the Heart: Ask for a handmade card, poem, drawing, or video message. A “coupon book” filled with helpful offers (like one free dishwashing or “no whining for 24 hours”) can go a long way toward making you smile.

Help Around the House—Without Being Asked: Even a small act—cleaning a room, folding the laundry, feeding the dog—can speak volumes. It’s the thoughtfulness in anticipating needs and demonstrating care that matters most.

A Little Guilt-Free Alone Time: Sometimes, the best gift is space—a quiet coffee alone, a long bath, or the freedom to scroll Target aisles without being rushed. Let your kids know that honoring your “me time” is a form of love, too.

Starting a New Tradition Together: Establish a unique Mother’s Day tradition that’s all yours. Enjoy pancakes in bed, plant flowers, or take a yearly selfie—anything that evolves into a cherished ritual to anticipate each year.

A Day to Feel Celebrated and Seen: Whether it’s a “Queen for a Day” theme where the kids take care of dinner and tell you why they love you, or a surprise video of kind words, the idea is simple: let the day feel special. It’s not about extravagance, it’s about feeling appreciated.

If you’re parenting alone this Mother’s Day, please know this: your efforts, strength, and love are not invisible. You are doing the work of two (sometimes more), and while the world may not always see it, your children and so do we.

Express what you want to do, and you may need to guide them to make it happen. Remember to enjoy the moment.

XOXO