When Someone Turns to Stone in a Marriage
- Erin Jones
- 3 days ago
- 2 min read
Let’s take a moment to reflect on the journey to emotional disconnection isn’t an abrupt event; it unfolds gradually. It may begin with a missed conversation, an unvoiced apology, or a “I’m fine” that doesn’t ring true. Before long, the person who once shared laughter, dreams, and deep emotions with you becomes quiet. They remain physically present, but you can sense the distance.
When someone shuts down emotionally in a marriage, the warmth begins to fade. Hugs become brief, conversations diminish, and it may feel like the relationship is tilting toward one side. You make efforts to bridge the gap: you talk, you try, you hold onto hope; however, it often seems like you’re just echoing into an empty canyon.
At this point, it becomes clear: you cannot inspire someone to reconnect if they’re not willing to engage in the relationship.
It’s essential to remember that when your partner withdraws, it doesn't mean you have to diminish yourself to fit into their silence. You don’t need to mirror their coldness. You can still embrace kindness, understanding, and self-respect.
Here's the bright side: stone cannot feel, nurture, or give love, but you have the power to do all those things.
You can choose to preserve your inner light, even if theirs has dimmed. You can walk away from the heaviness of the situation with your head held high, knowing you did everything within your power. At times, love means staying, and at other times, it means recognizing when staying may only weigh you down further.
So, if you find yourself in a marriage where you’re the sole one reaching out, still feeling deeply, remember this: you don’t have to match their emotional withdrawal.
You possess the strength to move forward. You can heal and cultivate a life that is vibrant and full of joy once more.
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They may have turned to stone, but you?
You became unbreakable.
xoxo
Erin
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