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Which dating sites do you use?
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Feb 20, 20231 min read


Divorce frustration facts.
As a fellow divorcee, I find myself at many times and in many ways getting frustrated at situations that may be within my control or on...
Feb 15, 20232 min read


Men & profiles, from the female viewpoint.
Hey, all you men out there looking for love need to know what women think of your online dating profile. Maybe you’re just trying to get...
Feb 13, 20232 min read


Friends, or something more?
I'd be 99% sure most of you have run into this situation: A friend has turned lover or possibly your next lover. I feel I am in a cycle...
Feb 8, 20232 min read


Toxic vs. healthy relationships…only one really matters
This topic may apply to your marriage, your divorce, or a relationship you’re currently in, and we’re here to cover all angles so that,...
Feb 6, 20233 min read


Tempted (but not really).
So here you are, dating again, or at least trying. Congratulations, you've at least crossed that hurdle. However, you've found that the...
Jan 31, 20232 min read


Prenup power play.
Did you have a prenup? What does it mean for the end of your marriage? Let's take a look at this situation. Say you were young and in...
Jan 23, 20232 min read


Do you believe in Astrology?
And when date/relationship shopping do you look for people that are a good match for you based on your sign? Or do you date whomever and...
Jan 21, 20232 min read


Well enough alone?
Being alone hurts sometimes. OK, more than just occasionally. OK, a lot. I've touched on loneliness before on this blog, but it bears...
Jan 19, 20233 min read


Don't Rain on my parade!
You've seen "Funny Girl" with the one and only BARBRA, right?? Parades. When I first got divorced, I didn't know there was an unknown...
Jan 16, 20232 min read


Embrace It!
OK ladies, as a woman of a certain age, likely you've had a child or two (or three, maybe four, or more), and now you're getting...
Jan 8, 20232 min read


STDs & you.
Yes, they can happen to you, and after talking to some close friends and colleagues about the topic, I admit I was a bit taken aback - no...
Jan 3, 20232 min read


NEW YEAR: New attitude? New beginnings? It’s all waiting for you.
OK, boys and girls, here we are. A new year and newly – or not the so-newly – single life. What to do? Start drinking mimosas when you...
Dec 30, 20223 min read


Matrimony meltdowns.
Do you want a divorce? Or do you just need a break? Marriage does not differentiate for brides or grooms; it can be blissful whether...
Dec 28, 20223 min read


Dating has become Elementary!
Happy 2023 Dishers, raise your hand if you'd like to go back to elementary school (I didn’t think so). I hope your first few days of the...
Dec 27, 20222 min read


Everybody makes mistakes. EVERYBODY.
When you're divorced, you're gonna make mistakes. No doubt about it, period; that's the way it is. You're going to say the wrong things,...
Dec 23, 20222 min read


Disher Journaling Activity
As we head out of 2022, let's do a journaling activity. Could you take time to answer the questions below in your journal? All you need:...
Dec 22, 20221 min read


Genders “IDs”: What do they mean, and what do they reveal?
Anyone who’s out in the world of dating has signed up for dating sites or may just want to understand gender identities and roles in 2022...
Dec 19, 20221 min read


The Dish is out!
So thrilled to announce that the Amazon.com and Amazon Kindle version of my new book Divorcee Dish is now available at amazon.com! Please...
Dec 18, 20221 min read
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